If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If
he doesn't want you,
nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from
heartache.

Stop trying to change yourselves for a
relationship that's not meant to be.

Slower is better. Never live your life for a man
before you find what makes you truly happy. If a
relationship ends because the man was not treating
you, as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be
friends."

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you
along, then he probably is.

Don't stay because you think, "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying
when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship
is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a
bunch of different women. He didn't marry them
when he got them pregnant. Why would he treat
you any differently?

Always have your own set of
friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If
something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man
know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change
comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important
than you are... even if he has more
education or in a better job. Do not make him into
a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing
less.

Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow
someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll
cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way
you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one
doing all the bending...compromise is two way
street.

You need time to heal between
relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a
new relationship

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE
you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE
individuals...look for someone complimentary...not
supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be
Mr. Right.

Make him miss you
sometimes...when a man always know where you
are, and your always readily available to him- he takes
it for granted.

Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign
for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't
give you everything that you need.

Keep him in your radar but get to know others.